Three years

I have a history of being a bit of a commitment-phobe. When Steel and I hit the 2-year mark last summer that was a record for me; I’d never been in a relationship that long before. My tendency had always been to walk away as soon as it stopped being fun. I have very little […]

Poppin’ my HNT cherry

Happy Half-Nekkid Thursday everyone! It’s taken me a while to get up the nerve to do HNT, but here it is. I decided to showcase Steel’s favorite feature;) This song by the Asylum Street Spankers is for all you admirers of callipygian females: That dress is one of my new favorites. I got it at Goodwill a […]

Last Night

You foreshadowed our hedonistic exploits early in the evening by preparing a delectable dinner of spinach salad with dried cranberries and walnuts, then strawberry shortcake for dessert. You offered to make me a strawberry daiquiri, too, but I declined because I know that alcohol makes me sleepy, not horny. It was still early and I […]

Birthday Sex!

How could I forget? My birthday wasn’t all about strippers and sex shops, it also involved some great sex! Unfortunately, we didn’t find the toy I was looking for at the sex shop, so no new toy reviews to share with you. And while being groped by a naked dancer really didn’t make me horny, […]

About Ruby

Ruby is an aspiring sex writer who is not above peddling her wares as a blogging whore. She has been known to engage in shameless self-promotion and link-swapping. Regardless of what you may have heard, however, she does have standards. And they’re pretty high, too. When she’s not probing the mysteries of life and love, […]

A Good Man is Hard to Find

[This is the fourth and final post in a series entitled Overcoming Orgasm Killers that will examine the various factors that impact a woman’s sexuality, particularly in relation to her ability to orgasm.] I’ve spoken of some of the personal reasons why a woman might have difficulty achieving orgasm and realizing her full sexual potential, […]

Tagged! 7 Random Things

I’ve been tagged! This one was actually a little tricky since I just recently wrote my 100 things about Ruby post, but I’m a multifarious creature so I managed to come up with 7 more random things about me. Here you go: When I met and began dating my husband, one of the first things he did […]

TMI Tuesday #89

I’m a day late, but that’s nothing new. I’m not really into memes, but TMI is right up my alley. Does the carpet match the drapes? Yes it does! Ruby’s a natural redhead baby;) Personally I think my trimmed red bush is quite pretty, which is just one reason why I don’t shave or wax it […]

You shouldn’t have to go solo, but if you do . . .

At long last, a reader has sent me a solicitation for advice. Bless you, dear woman! Her first email was quite brief: My man can’t keep up with my hyper sexual needs. I am turning to battery operated machinery to quell my needs. What do you recommend???? I wasn’t quite clear on what sort of […]

Sexy: Past and present

I found these links via Coudal Partners (yeah, I’m a geek like that) and thought I’d share them. First, a blast from the past on Flickr: a photoset of stripper audition polaroids from the 1960s. I love all things vintage, and this photoset is pure gold, baby. Now we must return to 2007, when technology is ubiquitous and […]