Meet Ruby

I like to talk about sex. I think about sex a lot. I enjoy sex a lot! I’d like to share my thoughts on sex, and hear your thoughts, too. Let’s get to know one another, shall we?

I’m a happily married hetero mom and stepmom. Once upon a time, before I was married with children, I was an idealist radical paradigm dismantler and aspiring novelist. Now I’m a somewhat cynical radical pragmatist and blogging whore. I’m proudly paradoxical in all sorts of ways. I think Jesus was the shit but am leery of Christians. I’m a feminist and a cock-happy slut. I’m a lucky wife and mother as well as a big proponent of being single and/or childless. I like dogs and cats. And I also happen to be smart and sexy, which isn’t the least bit ironic.

I’m a big proponent of the female orgasm, and it is my mission to make sure that women are having more of them. While I realize that sex can be fun and passionate without any orgasms, I happen to like orgasms quite a bit and have them easily. I don’t think I have a special talent, I think most, if not all, women are capable of being multi-orgasmic. And I think the best way to make that happen is for a woman to take control of her own orgasms, rather than rely on her lover to always make it happen for her. And yet, any man worth his salt in bed will focus his energy on pleasing his woman. When everyone is focused on her orgasm, everybody wins!

I don’t claim to have all the answers, but I do have a lot to say about sex and I don’t mind sharing. I also appreciate new perspectives and ideas, and I hope to see some lively discussions on this site.

So what more do you want to know? Come on, I know there’s something you’re dying to ask me. Go ahead, ask me anything! I’m not shy;)

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